The site for Stephen Wynn Cole

WYNN COLE is due on October 20th, 2010.

Can't wait to meet you, Wynn.

Friday, November 26, 2010

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Great Grandparents with Katie Joy 3 months and Wynn one month.

Cousin Will- world series baseball runner up.

Jacob getting a ride from Marc. John Luke on the couch eating his hands.

Cousins Benjamin and Marc... Up to something.

Cousins Joseph and Katie Joy

Hanging with a bunch of cousins on your first Thanksgiving at Meme and
grandaddys

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Busy Day for Wynn

Hang with Dad at the office.

Visit with Nana Carol, Aunt Carrie (of the biological variety - OTBV) and Aunt Jordan.

Lunch at The Brick.

And the Day is only 1/2 over.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Liveblog

Came home from the office and Mom had you listening to the Beatles and watching Family Guy.

Your going to be well rounded

So... You're a month old.


It has been a month since you arrived to meet us. While life has definitely changed for your Mom and me, it hasn't been the wholesale transformation that people talk about. Which is good, because we kind of liked our lives before you got here. That said, we like our life so much better now that you're in it. Seeing your little smile is the new favorite part of my day everyday. Watching you go from a hysterical screaming fit to instant calm just because you get a pacifier or something similar is equal parts hilarious and frustrating. Really - that's all you wanted? That's what all that noise was about?



Your parents apologize now for how spoiled rotten you are going to be. (Or are since you're probably reading this while playing with whatever gadget you couldn't live without that we couldn't resist getting for you.) We can't put you down. We love holding you and putting you up on our shoulder or to our chest. Kisses on top of your little blonde head are the best. Kisses on your nose are a close second. Your BeBe has declared you perfect and a doctor has even given his assent to that declaration. We all agree.


So forgive us for how rotten you have become. We couldn't help ourselves. Even when we went for a stroll in the batmobile (the black stroller with all the accessories) I couldn't help but pick you up when we got to Jackson Street. I pushed an empty stroller the rest of the way home. We really don't even need the two strollers at this point. Or the crib. That big round crib that took about six hours to put together the night of the Boise State v. Virginia Tech game. You've slept in it a good 45 minutes since you've been home. We just have to have you with us.






We snuck down to Tuscaloosa for a TROY basketball game. You stayed with BeBe and Pops. We missed you and thought about you the whole time. Instead of getting delicious wings from Phil's (you are going to love Phil's when you're older) we just got in the car and headed home. We had to get back to you.



Last Friday, your Aunt Michelle and Aunt Trish did their thing at their new place, The Magnolia Room. It was great and we had a great time, but BeBe called and said you needed your Mom. Mom jumped up and said, "It's time to go" and away we went. It is just too hard being away from you for any length of time. We are just so afraid we're going to miss something.



You've already grown so much. Your TROY onesie is already a little snug. That's okay, because your TROY t-shirt is waiting to be called into action. Your little Auburn footies are already too small. You're not far from being able to wear your Michelle Malone Homegrown onesie. Dad's already got a great picture idea for when that time comes. Yes, Wynn, we're sorry for all the pictures. You don't really like the flash on the camera that much. We're preemptively sorry for showing them to your first date.




So life has changed some, no doubt. But really, we just added an element. You. And it is a natural fit. Sure, we sleep less and at odd times. We can't just "go" somewhere without some planning. I had never changed a diaper before you showed up and now I can get you undressed, changed cleaned up, redressed and dispose of the diaper in under a minute. And that's even with the time it takes to apply something called butt paste. Seriously, that's what it is called. Times have changed since that first hospital diaper the nurse patiently guided me through.


But we still get to see our friends. Your Aunt Cat has been over a couple of times to sip wine with your Mom. Your Dad is still going to get to coach basketball. Friends bring you (okay us) food almost every night. I haven't eaten this well since before I was married. I still get to crack jokes at Mom's expense. Obviously. You just get to take part. That's the only difference. Ala Will Ferrell from Wedding Crashers - a movie you should not have seen until you were 16, but that I probably let you watch at around 9 -when you're hungry, you yell at your Mom for "meatloaf." "Mom, Meatloaf!!!! What's taking so long?!?! MEATLOAF!!!" And sometimes we take pictures of Mom's rear end in the mirror while she's bent over giving you a bath and post them on the internet.




We still get to go out to dinner and listen to music. We just come home a little earlier. Buffett and Bogey are great babysitters. BeBe and Pops are better. There is a line of high school girls waiting to babysit you. Where were you 18 years ago?








Dad still gets to watch his games. He just has someone sleeping on his chest now while their on. Which actually works out great for Dad because now I've got a great excuse for asking Mom to fix me a sandwich and a drink. Before I just did it because I was lazy. See, Wynn, you're actually Daddy's little helper already.


Hopefully, by the time you're reading this, you'll have been taught by some glorious English teacher all about tenses and first, second and third person. Daddy had all those teachers and did really well in those classes back when he "applied himself". Daddy realized at the time that first, second and third person rules were really kind of silly and that a writer's style shouldn't be confined by such silly rules, despite what all the books said - but I went along with them because you had to get an 'A'. (See what I did there Wynn? I shifted from third to first person right in the same sentence. And it was fine. The world didn't explode and sometimes you can do creative things with sentences by doing that. Just a tip from Dad.)




And it is also okay to start sentences with "and." Some glorious English teacher will tell you not to. And you shouldn't in her class because you're going to need to get that 'A'. And you should do what your teacher tells you. And that is especially true if your teacher is Aunt Jess. And in doing so however you should also understand that while it is okay to sometimes start a sentence with 'and', the real risk is doing it to much. And the reason for that is that sometimes it becomes distracting for readers. And we don't want to do that.



So... you've had a brief rundown on what your life has been like during your first month. You've had an important life lesson. Sure, the teacher may be wrong, just do what she says and we'll fix it later. Grades matter. I left out all the peeing and pooping and spitting up, because I wouldn't want you to embarrassed later in life when reading this. I mean, do you really need to know about your little mustard looking poops. No one needs to hear about that. Likewise, no one needs to know how gassy you were as a little guy. And how Mom and I laughed each time a "barking spider" ran out of sight.





No, you just need to know about all the special people that have written you notes, brought you presents, stopped by to see you and sent messages about how wonderful and beautiful you are. You need to know how loved you are. You need to know how everyone schedules their days around you to be able to hold you. You need to know you like looking at the TV, but like looking out the window more.

You need to know that people your Dad hasn't seen in ten years called him to say how special you are. You need to know you like baths. You don't like being taken out of the bath. But then you like being wrapped up in a towel. You need to know the towel usually has ears. You need to know how everytime you do something for the first time, your Mom cries. You need to know your Dad does too. You need to know sometimes your Dad cries when he types things about you on your blog. You need to know sometimes we cry for no reason at all other than we're holding you and we love you so much. You need to know your Aunt Carrie stops by to see you every time she passes through town. You need to know she seldom did that before. You need to know your Uncle Caleb asks about you first thing in every correspondence from Taiwan. You need to know your MeMe and Grandaddy started you a college fund the day you were born. You need to know how to break down a zone and use a killer crossover so you can get a scholarship and use that college fund on a car. Okay, that's later that you need to know that. But you're still going to need to know it. You need to know you don't always cry when your diaper is being changed. You need to know when you're not looking, Bogey steals your Boppy. You need to know when another dog got close to you, Bogey stepped in front of you and growled. You need to know Buffett licks you on the head when he thinks no one is looking. You need to know Miss Foxx next door came inside, sat down and visited. You need to know she had never done that before. You need to know she did it again. You need to know it was just an excuse to hold you. You need to know you have been able to hold your head up since you were six hours old. You need to know how two days ago, your eyes and head turned as you watched your Mom walk across the room - you followed her the whole way. You need to know how great Dad felt when he got to feed you out of a bottle the first time. Yes, he cried at that too. You need to know you can sleep for more than five hours at a time - and you need to do it more often. You need to know its alright if you don't sleep anymore than that because that means we're awake and spending more time with you. You need to know you're getting big so fast. You need to know you have little baby acne. Right on the tip of your nose. You need to know it is adorable. You need to know Mom and Dad found out you were on your way on our 3rd Anniversary. You need to know your Aunt Ginny-Vick rushed right over. You need to know Dad really can't sing, but its okay that he does as long as it makes you happy. You need to know all the songs we've made up about you. You need to know that there is a meaning to life. You need to know there is a purpose to your life. You need to know you probably won't know it until you have your first child. You need to know that your Dad would write more often on your blog, but every second he's doing that is time he's not with you.


To be continued...












Thursday, November 18, 2010

All He Does is Wynn...

Your going to want to turn the volume up for this one...

The Auburn fans may appreciate this one more than other folks...

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

MAMA ROO!!!

Aunt Carrie Jones (not to be confused with biological Aunt Carrie Cole) texted she wanted to get you a present. What did you need? I had no idea of course. Lucky for you!! Aunt Carrie makes an executive decision and you are the recepient of an awesome MAMAROO.





I had no idea what a MAMA ROO was but since Mom teared up when I told her Aunt Carrie was sending you a MAMA ROO, I knew it had to be special.





And you know what was really great about it. Dad was able to put it together in less than 5 minutes. And there were no parts left over. We haven't decided exactly where to put it, but I'm pretty sure furniture will be arranged around the MAMA ROO. You seemed to really like it. It has multiple speeds and rocking patterns and plays nature sounds. You can even hook your iPod up to it and jam out to Ben Harper covering Bob Marley!





Seriously. Dad needs one in his size.




Monday, November 8, 2010

Oh yeah...



You wore Ugz. Your mom only gets to dress you until your 3. I apologize for that.

Just a walk







The whole family went for a walk. Me and Mom and Bogey and Buffett. You actually just rode in your stroller. It was kind of chaotic. Buffett didn't like our slower pace and he and Bogey tangled several times. You got to explore your neighborhood, the Albany Historic District for the first time. I don't think you saw much except for trees. You'll have plenty of time to learn about your neighborhood.


It was a good first loop around Albany. Many more to come.

Friday, November 5, 2010

PEE PEE TEEPEE!! PEE PEE TEEPEE!!!

So... I'd heard all the stories about little boys and their tendency to let fly while having their diaper changed. Your Mom even introduced me to "PeePee TeePees" when we went to Babies 'R Us. I underestimated the importance of the peepee teepee.



The second night at home, Sunday the 24th of October is a day that will live in infamy. In your brief 5 days breathing air I had already changed 756 diapers with no unsolicited moisture. After removing your diaper I was looking for the vaseline type stuff. I looked down and someone had turned on the faucet. I was caught so off guard the only thing that came to my mind were the words "Peepee teepee!" I yelled it three or four times in a row which caused your mother to laugh hysterically.



Imagine you spraying all over and me shielding the linens (and your face - on which you had already scored a direct hit) with my hand while only being able to summon the words peepee teepee.



We had a good laugh about it and Mom frequently just looks at me and says in a high pitched voice, "PeePee TeePee, PeePeeTeePee."



And since I've been making fun of you for getting yourself in the face for two weeks, I think tonight you exacted your revenge. I took a position by your head instead of by your feet where I normally am with Mom.

At your first opportunity, you let fly... or spray. Your aim was true. The distance, approximately two feet was accurate. You soaked my jeans in the same area from which you launched your own attack. It was part Pearl Harbor. Part opening scene from Jaws. I was the swimmer in the water at night. I was in the water. Your mom laughed hysterically. PeePee TeePee was again exclaimed. And I detected a smirk. A smirk that confirmed without a doubt, you're my boy.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

My MOM (GiGi???)




My Mom, your Grandmother isn't going to pick a name for you to call her. She wants you to decide. I'm pushing GiGi (Grandma Gayla).

The Grandmother to be named later came to Decatur on Saturday. You've inherited something from me already... the ability to absolutely do no wrong in her eyes.








SURPRISE!!!





















On Sunday, you made your very first trip to Sardis to see MeMe and Grandaddy. We surprised them. They were so happy to see you.





I grew up in MeMe and Grandaddy's house and it will always be home. Everyone needs a special place they can go and relax and feel completely comfortable - even when they're a grown up. You'll find that place. It may be the house you're in now. I hope it is because then you'll want to come visit your folks a lot. It is just a good feeling to go to MeMe and Grandaddy's and fiddle with things in the barn, look at old memories in the garage and walk in the pasture.







And while we were with MeMe and Grandaddy we had a special treat. The Wiggins showed up. I can't tell you how many times I sat in the living room listening to Jackie Wiggins talk to Grandaddy about sports, religion, politics... It was fitting they got to meet you.






You won't get to grow up there, but hopefully you'll get all the best traits of the folks in Sardis. They love their families, their faith and their neighbors. They're independent and self sufficient. They've got strong views, but for the most part, they don't impose them on you. It is an imperfect place, just like everywhere else, but it is a great place to be from... and a great place to visit.



But the best thing about Sardis will always be your MeMe and Grandaddy.

WYNN'S Photo Session

Your Mom won a free photo session for you and Aunt Kass and the photographer Jana came to your house on Saturday. After some initial hesitation, you proved to be your mother's son by warming up to the camera and being an excellent model.


You even got so comfortable you fell asleep in the snake charmer's basket.


Jana commented the whole time about how beautiful you are. She's correct of course. She posted some "sneak peaks" of the photo shoot. We need to do a little work on your "Blue Steel" but "Magnum" has already been perfected. (Semi obscure Zoolander reference - just Google it - if Google still exists when you are reading this.)


Jana's website is 205photography.com and here's the sneak peak.



There are 4 pictures on rotation. Here's one:

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

WYNN VOTES




You had a big last few days. Saturday was your photo shoot. Sunday you went to Sardis for the first time. And today (Tuesday, November 2nd) you went to Fort Decatur with Dad to vote. I'd love to tell you it was some historic occasion, but it really wasn't. It will probably go down in history as the 4th or 5th swing of a pendulum from a voting public that isn't real sure where it wants to go. And that is okay.


We'll probably have many many discussions about politics as you get older. The one thing I want you to always remember about every political decision and every political issue is that at the end of the day... each decision affects people. It isn't just an issue. It isn't just a dollar figure or number. It isn't just a debate. Real people and their real lives are affected. Don't ever forget people are at the center of each political discussion. You may turn out to be a Democrat or a Republican or a Libertarian or a Whig or a Bull Moose party member. Just remember decisions have consequences on the lives of people and you have a good starting point.




Miss Lawrence and the Aldrichs said you were the cutest voter they ever had.